Single Parenting
Single parenting is not an easy choice to
make. You will have many days where you might not think you can
make it. Even though we're glad you chose life for your child,
we want to make sure that you are not putting yourself into a
stressful and harmful situation. Remember to learn about all of
your options! Our client advocate are ready to assist you in
discovering the support services that exist in our area. We
exist to support you throughout your pregnancy and beyond!
Here are some questions to consider about single parenting:
If I can't afford to live on my own, where can I live
with my baby?
We can help you explore your housing options before you
deliver. Most single parents need to work. Consider your
childcare options in each situation:
- Living with a friend or relative
- Living with your parents or the birthfather's
parents
- Finding an apartment in public, subsidized housing
Can anyone help me with baby
items, maternity clothes, etc.?
New Life Pregnancy Center has many material resources for you and
your baby. We can help you with maternity clothes, baby
clothing, child birth and parenting classes, etc.
Our
Services
How do I get support from the father?
The father's legal responsibilities include providing financial
support for your child. Most states have a child support
enforcement agency that will withhold money from his paycheck
if he is unwilling to pay. If the father is unable to provide
child support, you need to plan how you will care for your baby
without him. A birthfather's support record may influence court
decisions about custody and visitation rights. You and the
father should also discuss your individual rights and
responsibilities. A child's needs are best met when mother and
father work together.
Can I still choose adoption later if parenting doesn't
work out?
If single parenting becomes too difficult and you decide to
consider adoption, making an adoption plan is still an option.
It takes courage to realize that by yourself you cannot provide
all that your child needs. But separating from a child with
whom you have bonded can be difficult. We will be happy to
connect you with several adoption agencies in your area that
can help you.
I'm not sure I will be a good parent.
Parenting can be a struggle at any age no matter what the
circumstances. Our center offers parenting classes that will
help you in all areas of home care and baby management. We are
here to help you and want you to become the best parent
possible.
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